Gentleness

Soft waves of compassion wash over me.

Your Words of Wisdom (WOW) Guidance Card for Living Life Better for July 22 - 28, 2020.

Soft waves of compassion wash over me.

Definition: quality of being kind, tender or mild-mannered

Other: considerate, understanding, good-natured

Opposite: strong, brutal, indifference, cruelty

Gentleness generates peace and calm.

It is not volatile or abrupt in its response to the world.

One who is gentle strives to be harmless, to not force or hurt others.

Gentle people use their gentleness as a cloak of purpose, aware of the needs of people around them.

It can be a feeling of shelter in the storm.

In these challenging and uncertain times, gentleness may actually be an act of rebellion. It is a time to acknowledge the pain of others and care with a non-judgmental, accepting heart. Human connection is what fosters gentleness.

The truth of what is being felt by each of us cannot be denied. Pretending we are not scared, mad or sad will not make it disappear. However, if we do not respond immediately, but stop and take a step back, so we can ground our thoughts and feelings, we can take a tender approach towards the world and all that is going on.

Gentleness consists of being considerate, understanding and presenting a calm demeanor. Being clear-minded with your intention can show empathy and concern for the suffering and misfortune of others.

Often, we don’t know all the details that lead to the difficult times for those around us, but at this time we can turn on the news and see it 24/7 blasting away at our peace and hope.

Gentleness toward others and even ourselves is another way to show love and may result in making changes toward a better world.

Gentleness is the antidote to cruelty.

-Phaedrus

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Becky and Janette

Becky Wilbur, Silver Lining Special at Well-Being and Wonder. She is a woman who is wise-hearted and chooses to live with ease. Well-being is the vision which lights her way with peace and love. As an encourager, healer and champion for flourishing and contentment, she is honored to inspire others on their journey of change. She is a widow, and Mom to two girls and a mutt named Sadie from Modesto, CA.