Here’s your Words of Wisdom (WOW) Message of the week for July 23, 2023.

GENTLENESS

Soft waves of compassion wash over me.

Definition: quality of being kind, tender or mild-mannered

Other: considerate, understanding, good-natured

Opposite: strong, brutal, indifference, cruelty

Gentleness generates peace and calm.

It is not volatile or abrupt in its response to the world. One who is gentle strives to be harmless, to not force or hurt others.

Gentle people use their gentleness as a cloak of purpose, aware of the needs of people around them.
It can be a feeling of shelter in the storm.

In these challenging and uncertain times, gentleness may actually be an act of rebellion. It is a time to acknowledge the pain of others and care with a non-judgmental, accepting heart.

Human connection is what fosters gentleness. The truth of what is being felt by each of us cannot be denied. Pretending we are not scared, mad or sad will not make it disappear. However, if we do not respond immediately, but stop and take a step back, so we can ground our thoughts and feelings, we can take a tender approach towards the world and all that is going on.

Gentleness consists of being considerate, understanding and presenting a calm demeanor. Being clear minded with your intention can show empathy and concern for the suffering and misfortune of others. Often we don’t know all the details that lead to the difficult times for those around us, but at this time we can turn on the news and see it 24/7 blasting away at our peace and hope.

Gentleness toward others and even ourselves is another way to show love and may result in making changes toward a better world.

Gentleness is the antidote to cruelty.
-Phaedrus


Find the Good,
Becky and Janette


Originally posted on July 22, 2020, written by Becky Wilbur.

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